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Day Zero: One More Trip With My Parents

When my dad suggested we all go to Estes Park, Colorado for Labor Day weekend I thought he was crazy. It was only a week ago, school was just starting, and Estes Park is about fifteen hours from Iowa City. It seemed like a lot of work to just have a few days vacation. Oh, and did I mentioned he wanted to bring our little Maltese, Lacey, along for the trip even though we struggle to make her go to the bathroom in the backyard? Yeah.

But one of my goals was to take one more trip with my parents. I’ve done quite a bit of traveling over the last year and have more traveling ahead of me this year–but I haven’t done any traveling with my parents since spring break sophomore year. Trips were always a big part of my life growing up and I’m incredibly lucky my dad loves to travel as much as he does. Because of him I’ve been all over the United States and abroad. I don’t think a year went by where we didn’t go on a trip and often we went on two during a year. I definitely caught the travel bug from him.

This is my fourth or fifth time to Colorado which means we’ve done a lot of relaxing. We’re staying in a cabin near downtown Estes so we’ve done some shopping and today we went up to the top of Rocky Mountain National Park. Tomorrow we’ll do some relaxing, maybe check out Estes Park Brewery and do a little hiking. It’s been great to get away for a few days and spend some quality time with my family. I have to say, I think Lacey has enjoyed it the most!

Lacey taking in the scenery.

Lacey worn out from all the scenery.

Rocky Mountain National Park

I just went through all the pictures we took today and my eyes are closed in almost all of them! Luckily we have a day left to try again! But for now I’m going to continue reading Stardust on the deck.

826 days to go, 14% complete! 

Day Zero Challenge: A Trip on My own


Part of the reason I started my Day Zero project was I already started doing things I’d always wanted to do. I went backpacking through Europe and thought to myself, “That was pretty ballsy, what else would I do if I was always that ballsy?” My trip to New York was already in the works when I started my Day Zero project, but I still consider taking a trip on my own a huge accomplishment. I planned and booked everything on my own, and I still managed to survive the trip.

I met a lot of great people during BEA and BBC which made the trip an amazing experience. I’ve never taken a trip completely on my own and I’m sure it would be a much different experience. For now I’m happy with what I did. It proved I could make a plan and execute without another person showing me around. On my last day in New York I did a little wandering and I wasn’t distracted by the wants or interests of others.

Checked out this great statue at Madison Square Park.

I went to a farmers market.

 

Would you consider taking a trip on your own? Have you ever done this before?
8% complete, 923 days to go on my Day Zero Challenge!

Book Review: A Thread of Sky

Deanna Fei’s A Thread of Sky is the story of three generations of Chinese women going on a trip to China. For some it means returning home, for others it means learning about a history they’ve never experienced. Each woman has her own struggle, her own secret. These secrets keep them from understanding and knowing each other. Throughout the novel there is the question from the grandmother, “What kind of woman will you be?”– but then there is the answering question, “Does planning what kind of woman I will be trap me?” This is truly the most underrated book I’ve read this year.

Fei has that slow writing style I’ve become such a fan of lately. It’s not so much the story that kept me going, although the story has plenty of twists and turns, but the beautiful prose. Each chapter focuses on one woman and Fei’s writing style has tiny changes to suit each woman’s personality. For the bulimic Sophie the writing is a little quicker, more urgent. For Irene, the mother who planned it all after her husband died, the writing is desperate. For the grandmother the writing is somewhat stern as she looks at these women and wants to tell them exactly how to live their lives.

A Thread of Sky questions what Feminism means today from the perspective of an old Chinese immigrant, a former Feminist revolutionary, a middle-aged Chinese American, and a teenager. What is clear is that the answer is something different for each woman, and the answer is also a struggle. Does Feminism really mean having it all? Or does it mean choices? Or does it mean going against the grain? Maybe it means all three things.

This is just great fiction writing. I was truly impressed by the skill Fei exhibited in manipulating her writing style to fit the time, place, and person. It was one of the books where I occasionally had to set it down and just say out loud, “This book is so good.”

I read this book as part of TLC Book Tours. Be sure to check out the other reviews posted about it.

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EMJF Comic: Ex-pat Tour Guide of Prague

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Book Review: The Diary of Anne Frank & The Authorized Graphic Biography

The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank is a book I never wanted to admit I’d never read. I felt like it was something everyone read when they were much younger than me, thirteen or fourteen I figured. It’s been on my TBR for a long time even though I’ve never owned a copy. Even though I’d never read the book, Anne Frank Huis was one of my must sees while in Amsterdam. Just because I didn’t read the book didn’t mean I didn’t know the story. Unlike my experience with Dachau and The Book Thief, I was immediately overcome with emotion upon entering Anne Frank Huis. It’s a totally different experience, and for me, a much more powerful one.

Anne Frank Huis does not have any furniture, but the walls are done like they were when the Franks hid there. In the center of the rooms are glass cases with artifacts from their time. What really got to me though, were the pictures of Anne Frank at the very beginning of the museum. She looks so happy.

Throughout the house there are quotes from her diary printed on the walls. It was as if she was telling her story to you, which I guess she was. The experience was also powerful for me because I had so many things in common with her. A love of reading and writing, nature, bicycles, and as a teenager I fought with my mother constantly and was extremely close with my father. When reading her diary I found it difficult to read the parts about her mother because I knew she would never get to experience the close relationship with her mother that I’ve had with mine.

I can’t really review her diary, that seems unfair. It is slow in spots but overall a worthwhile read.

“The best remedy for those who are frightened, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere they can be alone, alone with the sky, nature and God. For then and only then can you feel that everything is as it should be and that God wants people to be happy amid nature’s beauty and simplicity.

As long as this exists, and that should be for ever, I know that there will be solace for every sorrow, whatever the circumstances. I firmly believe that nature can bring comfort to all who suffer.”

I purchased my copy of the diary at Anne Frank Huis and also purchased The Anne Frank House Authorized Graphic Biography as a companion. It is an absolutely wonderful companion because it tells the before and after of the story and gives insight into what other characters’ experiences were like.

The artwork is more traditional than I thought it would be, but there are some seriously disturbing images of Anne and her sister after they were found and sent to a concentration camp. I think I got a little more emotional looking at those images than I did reading her diary. The experiences are extremely different. While reading the diary I thought about how normal Anne’s thoughts were for a girl her age: boy, friends, ambitions. That was what made it difficult, she represents the every girl, which makes you realize something like this could have happened to you. Reading the graphic biography gave me a lot more insight and history into her family, the experience of being in hiding, and what happened to the family after.

If you’ve never read The Diary of a Young Girl, I would highly recommend it and I would recommend reading the graphic biography after. It seemed to be a more fulfilling experience. If you’ve read the diary,  you might want to try the graphic biography– it might answer some of your unanswered questions.

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